Freedom and Love

Freedom and Love… How contradictory they seem at first glance. Because we are used to the fact that both parties restrict each other, jealousy and “Love only me” in relationships… I’ll cut it short: There is no such world! Nothing that does not give freedom cannot be love. Where there is no freedom, there can be no talk of love.

There is a point we always miss in partnerships. We think that love is something that is felt to the other side. No, the name of the thing felt to the other side is not love, it is excitement & passion.

Love is entirely your inner quality. Love is the flower that blooms in your essence. It has nothing to do with the other. The opponent can only trigger it. But in order for love to flourish, you must first “be yourself”. In order to be yourself, you must be able to feel completely free. Where there is no freedom, there can be no love. Any partnership that you give up on being yourself is not a product of love, it is a product of fear of losing. The source of a union that does not give you freedom is excitement, addiction, fear of losing; but it can’t be love. Look back at your union, is it a union that gives more freedom or a union that restricts your freedom?

When we look at people, we see that, with only a few exceptions, unions have turned into areas of restriction of freedom. Because we are afraid of losing the other side, we both submit to these restrictions and we put similar restrictions for the other side. Do not deceive yourself, these restrictions and envy are just ugliness disguised as love. They are so ugly that they can’t walk around without wearing a mask.

Anything that has “possession” in it cannot be love. Because love is just like a flower that grows in nature. If you desire it, you must accept and love it as it is, without possessing it. If you want to have it, you have two options:

Either you will pluck it from its branch and take it to your home and watch it die after a while…
Or you will have to make do with plastic flowers…

The choice is yours!